A simple way to curb behavior problems in children
Problems with students so often arise from imposing, rather than eliciting. When teachers impose “logical” and/or “natural” consequences on students, they are using their authority to impose a form of...
View ArticleHow to raise responsible children
If you find that disciplining your children and fostering a sense of responsibility in them is stressful or unsuccessful, the use of traditional parenting approaches may be the problem. Why? Because...
View ArticleA new generation – a new approach to parenting
With any task in life, the approach you use helps determine the outcome. Parenting is no different. Your parenting approach may determine what the young person becomes.Today’s parents have two models...
View ArticleIncrease your workplace productivity by creating a positive home life
In a perfect world, all aspects of life would be enjoyable. You’d not only love your job, but you’d also have a pleasant home life. However, a stressful home life can hinder workplace productivity....
View ArticleVisualization activities make brain compatible learning easy, fun, and engaging
Brain compatible learning infers that learning will take place in a manner that is "natural." Unfortunately, however, many teachers expect students to learn in an "unnatural" way.Let me explain by...
View ArticleWhy rules make parenting more stressful
When raising and disciplining children, many parents rely on rules. In reality, though, the use of the term "rules" in parenting is often counterproductive. Rules are used to control, not inspire....
View ArticleConsistency and child discipline: Why the two don't always go together
A significant trait that teachers, students, and parents are concerned about is being consistent when it comes to discipline.“How can I be fair, firm, and CONSISTENT?” was a question I continually...
View ArticleThree ways to make the classroom less stressful
Some experts suggest that a little stress is good, but high levels of stress are harmful to most people. However, it is possible to perform well when relaxed (think masters of kung fu). In my opinion,...
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Counterwill: The most misunderstood dynamic in teacher-student relationships
“Counterwill” is the name for the natural human resistance to being controlled. Although adults experience this phenomenon, we seem to be surprised when we encounter it in young people. Counterwill is...
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The future of the Common Core State Standards
The new Common Core State Standards is sweeping the USA as the newest approach to improve k-12 education.The new "guidelines" are designed to shape how students will learn and be held accountable,...
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Keep standardized test scores out of teacher evaluations
It seems incomprehensible that educational leaders continue to allow political agencies (government) to manipulate school districts. I am referring to the national debate of requiring teachers to be...
View ArticleCreate a learning climate to foster student success
If learning is what we value, then we ought to value the process of learning as much as the result of learning.By nature, people are attracted to activities where they feel free of psychological or...
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How to motivate students in the classroom
An old saying goes, “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” While that’s true, I believe we can speed up the process so students are ready sooner. Following are 12 suggestions both...
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One trick for helping children develop self-discipline
We all have the freedom to choose how we act, what we say, how we respond to situations, how we treat other people, and how we deal with an impulse. We also choose our self-talk.Each choice, no...
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Chicago teachers strike shows why accountability & standardized tests don't mix
Both the media and the critics of the current Chicago teachers strike are paying little attention to the primary reason that the teachers are not in their classrooms: Recent legislation passed by the...
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Stop lecturing your kids and start listening
If I were limited to one recommendation that would improve relationships between parent and child, especially with teenagers, it would be listen to learn. Listening and valuing young people’s feelings...
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Help your children avoid the trap of perfectionism
A major dilemma young people face is a desire to be perfect. This obsession hinders them and can have disastrous results. For example, consider this letter I received from a parent:“My son is six...
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